this.people[data.from] = { focus: true };
this.newConnect[data.from] = true; //for self multi-connects tests
this.send("askidentity", { target: data.from });
this.people[data.from] = { focus: true };
this.newConnect[data.from] = true; //for self multi-connects tests
this.send("askidentity", { target: data.from });